Well I'm 65 so I suppose new goals are in order
As you can appreciate, I have no memories of the event but I was told it was a very cold wintry day and I came into the world with two black eyes — I‘ve always wondered if those shiners were because I was fighting to get out or stay in. In any event, it was sixty-five years ago that I was born, and it does feel like a milestone. I’ve never been one for the number that we carry around with us each year, and other than a gauge of life experience, what does it really tell you? Truth be told, this perspective is partially influenced by good genes and my mother’s skin. I’ve been told it can be tricky to guess my age.
Be it a milestone or just another number, it does offer an opportunity to revisit my goals which as you know are the foundation for any good five-year plan — after all, there are still things to do, people to see, and places to go. Each of the following goals can stand alone, although I’ve a holistic approach, and each plays an important part in the overall result. These goals are to be:
Healthier; weirder; richer; more feral; and more unpredictable.
Although this may come across as glib, I feel they have merit and align with the path I want to walk. I will dig into them a little because I need to put “pen to paper” and build a plan that will take me through the next five years.
Healthier — All things considered, my body is healthy, barring those annoying aches that present themselves when I happen to fall playing hockey. This will continue to be a priority because with health everything is possible. As an aside, I recommend weight bearing activities as part of anything you may do. Regarding emotional and spiritual health, I’ve hit upon a few things I know are important — friends, long hikes in the forest, deep breaths when you realize it’s a beautiful day, and big spaces where I feel small (which counterintuitively offers great comfort). I am sporadic with my efforts around emotional and spiritual health so efforts to improve that will be part of the plan.
Weirder — This is a word that tends to be identified with being a little strange, and it may explain why I gravitate to that majestic and mystical animal, the unicorn. I like to think of weird as simply being different. Different is good — it allows you to avoid group think, allows you to entertain situations through a different lens, and offers opportunities to try new things you might not consider.
Richer — We should start with money which is always good to have around. I will continue to help people with their commercial problems so please reach out. I also want to expand my income streams and need to do a better job monetizing my blogging efforts, as well as get deeper into strategic investing. Regarding those things that make you richer that don’t involve money, I want to continue to enrich my character so when people speak of my epitaph they say, “He was a man of character and someone you could trust. And he was particularly funny.”
More feral — This is such a great word, and although the images of being wild and maybe even dangerous come with it, it conjures up something that will make for a very entertaining story. I am interpreting feral as simply being natural, removing the masks, and being truer to oneself. It’s an overused word, but this is referring to being authentic. I am a work in progress so this will be interesting and probably fun.
More unpredictable — This is simply a reminder to keep stretching my comfort zone and that this world has so many wonderful things to experience — never get too comfortable or content and as a result miss out on opportunities because it’s not what I am used to. When I don’t want to do something that’ s a signal that I should.
“Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference”. *
There you have it, I’m a year older, and I have mapped out some goals or guiding principles for the next five years. Some of these will need some active planning behind them to move the needle but some are simply about embracing more and letting it be.
Thank you to everyone for the past and the present, and for what will be.
iamgpe
PS: I should point out I heard these goals from a hiking “influencer” and decided to embrace them after some tweaks. Why wouldn’t I embrace something that makes sense and I can build a solid plan around? It seems like progress to me.
*Robert Frost
