Well I'm 65 so I suppose new goals are in order

As you can appreciate, I have no memories of the event but I was told it was a very cold wintry day and I came into the world with two black eyes — I‘ve always wondered if those shiners were because I was fighting to get out or stay in. In any event, it was sixty-five years ago that I was born, and it does feel like a milestone. I’ve never been one for the number that we carry around with us each year, and other than a gauge of life experience, what does it really tell you? Truth be told, this perspective is partially influenced by good genes and my mother’s skin. I’ve been told it can be tricky to guess my age.

Be it a milestone or just another number, it does offer an opportunity to revisit my goals which as you know are the foundation for any good five-year plan — after all, there are still things to do, people to see, and places to go. Each of the following goals can stand alone, although I’ve a holistic approach, and each plays an important part in the overall result. These goals are to be:

Healthier; weirder; richer; more feral; and more unpredictable.

Although this may come across as glib, I feel they have merit and align with the path I want to walk. I will dig into them a little because I need to put “pen to paper” and build a plan that will take me through the next five years.

Healthier — All things considered, my body is healthy, barring those annoying aches that present themselves when I happen to fall playing hockey. This will continue to be a priority because with health everything is possible. As an aside, I recommend weight bearing activities as part of anything you may do. Regarding emotional and spiritual health, I’ve hit upon a few things I know are important — friends, long hikes in the forest, deep breaths when you realize it’s a beautiful day, and big spaces where I feel small (which counterintuitively offers great comfort). I am sporadic with my efforts around emotional and spiritual health so efforts to improve that will be part of the plan.

Weirder — This is a word that tends to be identified with being a little strange, and it may explain why I gravitate to that majestic and mystical animal, the unicorn. I like to think of weird as simply being different. Different is good — it allows you to avoid group think, allows you to entertain situations through a different lens, and offers opportunities to try new things you might not consider.

Richer — We should start with money which is always good to have around. I will continue to help people with their commercial problems so please reach out. I also want to expand my income streams and need to do a better job monetizing my blogging efforts, as well as get deeper into strategic investing. Regarding those things that make you richer that don’t involve money, I want to continue to enrich my character so when people speak of my epitaph they say, “He was a man of character and someone you could trust. And he was particularly funny.”

More feral — This is such a great word, and although the images of being wild and maybe even dangerous come with it, it conjures up something that will make for a very entertaining story. I am interpreting feral as simply being natural, removing the masks, and being truer to oneself. It’s an overused word, but this is referring to being authentic. I am a work in progress so this will be interesting and probably fun.

More unpredictable — This is simply a reminder to keep stretching my comfort zone and that this world has so many wonderful things to experience — never get too comfortable or content and as a result miss out on opportunities because it’s not what I am used to. When I don’t want to do something that’ s a signal that I should.

“Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference”. *

There you have it, I’m a year older, and I have mapped out some goals or guiding principles for the next five years. Some of these will need some active planning behind them to move the needle but some are simply about embracing more and letting it be.

Thank you to everyone for the past and the present, and for what will be.

iamgpe

PS: I should point out I heard these goals from a hiking “influencer” and decided to embrace them after some tweaks. Why wouldn’t I embrace something that makes sense and I can build a solid plan around? It seems like progress to me.

*Robert Frost

Happy New Year — a word for your consideration

Pixaby — Tumisu

As we enter 2025, you can’t help but reflect on the last couple of years — 2023 was the first full year after the pandemic, and that was a dumpster fire as we made our way back to some sort of normalcy. With regard to 2024, I am not even sure how to define it but it did seem that nothing worked the way it used to; systems failed often, things that used to work didn’t, institutions were affectionately dropping the ball.

And that brings us to 2025.

I should mention I am not much of a futurist and my perspective is Canadian so here goes — politically there will be a shift to the right of centre in the near future as Canada goes to the polls; we are losing the geographic advantages of the GREAT WHITE NORTH with climate change and a warming arctic, more aggressive global trade policies and Canada’s declining position on the global stage. It seems that fires and floods are a regular occurrence for us; economic productivity is on the edge of decline, and there seems to be an underlying tone of concern and grievance. Just sounds like a “WTF scenario” to me.

And this brings me to my word for consideration — a·dapt·a·bil·i·ty (/əˌdaptəˈbilədē/), a noun. It’s the quality of being able to adjust to new conditions or the capacity to be modified for a new use or purpose.

Change is in the air for 2025 and like it or not, you will need to deal with it; Adaptability is the quality that helps you navigate a dynamic and changing world. So how do you become adaptable? A big question for sure, with an answer bigger than this 500 word blog but I will offer some food for thought for becoming more adaptable — change your belief that there is a hard right or wrong, don’t believe there is such thing as a sacred cow, and it’s important to be curious about all things that are new. That will get you started as you define what adaptability means to yourself.

So that’s my word for 2025 — you may not like it or think it isn’t appropriate, and that is fair. All I can suggest is find something you can tether yourself to emotionally and intellectually as you manage through 2025. It is going to be a wild one, so buckle up. In the meantime, as I count the clock down to 2025, I will enjoy a fine Pinot Noir from California because I have such fond memories.

On the first day of 2025, I will include an early bike ride because I have some races to get ready for and I am still adapting to my new wheels.

iamgpe

Reminders — your choices are all yours

happy or unhappy

kind or cruel

generous or selfish

Choices are rarely black or white but rather a spectrum of grey and rarely right or wrong because life and circumstance make everything just a little messy. Although, with enough time and like a scatter plot, your tendency will lean one way or the other and offer a reflection of who you are.

knowledgeable or ignorant

trustworthy or unreliable

honest or deceptive

Freewill is to blame (ask any philosopher). It gives us the ability to choose, set our own destiny and by extension, becomes a major contributor to our identity and place in the world. I am not suggesting this is the only factor that contributes to who you are or that all choices are equal, simple, or easy. In many cases choice is not binary and there are more than two choices available — although in many of the most important aspects of who we are (or want to be), it does lean one way or another and is easy to call out the choice you have made.

tenacious or complacent

accepting or intolerant

brave or complicit

Choice, and the results of your choice, brings consequence. It always strikes me funny when I hear someone say, “That’s not who I am” because of something they have done. Without fail, and sometimes out loud I say, “of course it is, it’s exactly who you are”.

responsible or careless

hardworking or lazy

humble or arrogant

It’s important to own your choices. One reason is because you don’t want to find yourself reflecting on your life and dwell on the regrets as a result of your choices. A second reason is simple accountability. It is imperative to take accountability for who you are and the consequences of your choices — it is the only way to ensure you are the person you want to be. If you don’t look in the mirror and self correct you, will find yourself looking back on your life with a list of grievances and reasons why it was someone else’s fault.

It was no accident the choices I offered were of character and not simply should I be a lawyer or a welder. As we come to the end of 2024 and as impossible as it sounds, in many respects it is worse than 2023, I keep wondering if we are simply choosing wrong. More and more, social media content stream AI generated content that reflect exaggerated, if not completely made up, content. How long until I can’t tell it is AI generated? It is obvious we are leaning into deceit in this regard, and I can’t help but wonder if maybe honesty will take us to a better place. I should point out that AI does not make character choices but its current masters do so we can only hope.

I believe more than ever we need to look in the mirror when it comes to our choices and the consequences. 2025 is just around the corner, and I think it’s fair to say we need to course correct a little.

iamgpe