"Know Your Measure"

Upfront I will say this is a little self indulgent but so be it.

If I’m asked what I do, I would have to say I spend a good deal of the time trying to “know myself” — something that has resonated since I read about the Temple of Apollo at Delphi in ancient Greece and how “Know thyself” was one of three sayings etched in stone near the entrance. 2500 years is a very long time, and with the passage of time and modern perspectives, we will never really know how accurate this is. Did the ancient greek characters chiselled into the stone say “Know Thyself” or “Know Yourself” or even something like “Know Your Measure” ? We will never truly know, but nevertheless, it’s a noble pursuit.

Of late, I lean toward the words Know your Measure — so much so that I have added it to my tattoo collection along with “Light and Love” which I should also add are two noble pursuits. What we may never know was it self-help advice or a warning — before you enter this temple, you better know how you measure up because you will be tested (or something to that effect).

The other day I was out with friends on some country roads training for an upcoming 65 km ride. We were spread out with me bringing up the rear, and as I passed an entrance to my left, I noticed two farm dogs sprinting down the lane in pursuit. Recognizing that they would easily catch me at my current speed, I screamed we had dogs on our tail and started to sprint with an accompanying surge of adrenaline; the race was on. My only goal in that moment was to stay ahead of them until they either tired or got bored with the chase — and with a final roar of warning and defiance they finally came to a stop and watched me and the rider I caught up to ride away. On this particular day, I measured up.

I’ve been riding for a long time and know that with a reasonable head start I can out pace a dog until it gets tired, but I also know that under slightly different circumstances or a little bad luck, the whole situation may have ended much differently — as they say in the business though, it turned out to be a good day. In the end, all we can do is understand our current circumstances and potential circumstances, critically understand our current measure, and develop our strengths and minimize our weaknesses to deal with them — and most importantly, understand when you don’t measure up so you can go off and better prepare for another day.

My general philosophy is be as smart, knowledgeable and as strong as possible because one day you will be faced with something you have never seen before and you will need everything at your disposal to meet the measure.

And with a little luck, you probably will.

iamgpe

Sacrificing Sacred Cows

One of the simplest examples of a Sacred Cow can be found when you write blogs because there’s a small number of words in play. Occasionally, you write a sentence that you like very, very much but as you continue to build your thoughts and as the page expands, you start to realize that the sentence just isn’t appropriate anymore. You refuse to edit it out and actively rationalize why it needs to stay. No matter how much it is not working you want to keep it — “It’s such a fantastic sentence and it just has to be used.”

This thinking regarding sentences can easily be transferred to operating mechanisms and processes, where you focus your efforts, roles and responsibilities, strategies and tactics — anything that has worked very well in the past but for many reasons doesn’t work anymore.

The pithy term Sacrificing Sacred Cows is used when something revered isn’t working anymore and has to be removed or changed — it’s a course correction needed to bring an idea to life or sustain continued success. Something works until it doesn’t, and the glitter of the Sacred Cow can blind the recognition that there is problem, and what has worked in the past, isn’t anymore. They can be hard to sacrifice, these Sacred Cows — disbelief they’ve become a problem or suboptimal, aspects of being human and our strategies*, the perception of sunken costs or one of the seven deadly sins; they all keep sacred cows alive and well.

It is easy to sacrifice a sentence in blog when it doesn’t work and much, much easier than shifting a company strategy or a blowing up a process tied to revenue. In the end though, if you don’t, the result will be the same — a poor product that over time becomes obsolete. Adapt or die is the harsh reality of business, life and even humble blogging and the result of sacred cows not dealt with appropriately. How they are dealt with can range from the subtle to the dramatic but first they need to be recognized.

And sometimes that is hard — we’re only human after all.

iamgpe

*The Nash Equilibrium — The Nash equilibrium is a decision-making theorem within game theory that states a player can achieve the desired outcome by not deviating from their initial strategy. Yes, he is the one in the movie ‘A Beautiful Mind”.

The words that have redefined me after my death...

It’s one of those books that is dense with information — not hard to comprehend but contains so much that every page has you thinking, has you marking up the margins and folding corners to the point that each page looks the same. I can see why it’s on every list of books that business leaders must read; I had seen it many times myself but only just picked it up a while back —I can’t help but wonder if this is one of those books that finds you. I was halfway into the book when I figuratively crashed into three sentences that had me re-reading the words, highlighting them with even more stars, and setting them to memory.

“Think of yourself as dead. You have lived your life. Now take what is left and live it properly.”

As I look back on my life I feel no regret, and although many things could have been done differently, I have to say everything worked out quite nicely. I will miss myself but like everyone else I will move on — I still have things to do after all.

A couple of days after my timely death I shared my experience and the profound impact of the quote with a confidant. After much enthusiasm on my part, I ended the conversation with, “I’m not sure what live it properly means” — the words just hung there. It did force the realization that a comparison was needed between this new life and one before I died. If I wasn’t going to move forward doing things differently (or properly) why did I go through the hassle of being dead in the first place? A reasonable question in my mind and one I suspect the author intended when he wrote it.

It’s a bold endeavour to set down on paper how to live a life properly but with the time I have left I’m embracing the opportunity to do just that — this is what I have come up with:

Approach everything with a critical eye for understanding — Understanding determines action; the better you understand a situation the better your decisions will be. Good critical understanding forces different points of view, inclusion of different voices and different ways of thinking (The author discusses this a lot, and it’s one of the reasons many circles classify it as a business book).

Attempt to control only yourself — The only thing you have any control over is how you react to the world; believing you can control anything else is an illusion. Control yourself with courage and face everything that comes your way with integrity, determination and kindness. Leave everything else to the logic of the universe.

Simple is better than complex — For no other reason than simple is less exhausting, and unlike many things that are over engineered, simple doesn’t break down as much.

Strive to be extremely healthy — I’m talking physically health here (I believe the above with look after mind and soul). Exercise much more, sit much less, move much more, eat much less and wander into nature much more. This is how you “take what is left” and get the most out of it — for as long as possible.

Do what you enjoy — maybe worth re-evaluating once in a while.

I think this defines a life lived properly quite nicely and will be a big help as I make my way for the second time.

iamgpe

PS — Sure I could have mentioned the book and the author but as I say, I think this is a book that finds you. Plus there is always the internet.

PPS — Boop if you happen to read this, send me an address and a copy will find you.